Just a tough thought, you need to bear with me. What if we turn things around and girls can actually propose to guys? I am not talking about dating or expressing emotions, I am talking about PROPOSAL. Yes, marriage proposal.
Just think of it this way, we, girls, seem to be fond of intriguing mysteries and tormenting ourselves with making assumptions and hypothesis. So, why can't we cut long stories short. If a girl likes a certain person (obviously a male) and they start talking, knowing each other in a better way and they end up hanging out for a while without him saying anything whatsoever about his feelings or where that obvious thing going on is heading after a while, is it possible for a girl to pop the question?
I wonder what would really happen. Would a guy think that she is too clingy or bold? So what? I have male acquaintances, whether they are family, casual friends or colleagues and they all know for sure, and even mock, our "indirect" gestures and hints of girls' desire to get married. So they know what is going on inside our minds, and they play fool, while we are playing dumb in the first place. Sounds like Tom & Jerry series for me.
Then, can we all sum things up and save ourselves the trouble of being in a constant hunting process? Can we, girls, behave in a straightforward manner for even once and speak up our minds and say what is going on and what is always roaming inside our heads?
Let us try for once and see what might happen. Well, if you do it and the guy responds well, then good for you. If he thinks that you are too bold just for speaking up your mind, then to hell with him, honey. You have saved yourself a lot of time. If you scare him off, then it is also good for you. That type usually does not want any kind of responsibility.
Give it a try and good luck!
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